The "Worst" Part of Your Wedding Day?

Everyone says your reception is the worst part of your wedding day.  My Grandpa says he offered all his daughters 1 1/2 times their money but none of them took it.  He told me to be the smart one and not have a reception.  I almost listened to him.  I had kinda decided that I didn't want to do a reception, I'd do the cake and first dance at my luncheon and be done by 2.  It would be the most chill wedding day either side of my family had seen.  Yet, there was a small part of me that felt I would be missing out on something if I didn't have a reception, there would be so man people you didn't have a chance to talk to.  Plus, you spend so much money on your dress it'd be a shame for nobody to see it.    

When Spencer and I started talking about marriage I told him I didn't want a reception.  I figured he would think this was an added bonus, but he surprised me.  He told me he wanted a reception, and he knew his parents would too.  Of course, once I told my mom this she said, "If you do a reception in Kaysville you have to do one here."  That's how I ended up with not one, but two receptions.  Now that it's all said and done, however, I am SO glad that we did a reception.  I thought the whole thing was a blast.  In fact, I wish we could do it all again!

Once it was decided we were doing a reception, we had to choose a location.  This part was a no-brainer for me.  Living in Cove there are very few options.  You can do your reception in Logan, but many people won't drive that far.  So, my backyard became the automatic pick.  This led to my entire family being forced into a yardwork frenzy.  We put in sidewalk int he backyard, curbing all around the house, woodchips on the flower beds, planted hundreds of petunias and other flowers, called the lawn doctor, and made our garden look immacualte.  Even though it stressed my mom to the max, she finally got the dream yard she'd been waiting for.  

The whole wedding "line".  With the exception of my friend, Marisa, we only had family members as our wedding party.  One of my biggest regrets from our reception is we did most of our pictures in front of the white garage wall.  There's a gorgeous rock wall and flowers behind us, you just can't see them.  

I love my nieces, and they looked pretty dang adorable in their yellow and grey dresses.  I had to get my classic bridesmaid shot with our bouquets.  And, of course, some of my best friends and I at the luncheon.  Most of these girls would have been my roommates this year had I not gotten married.  The luncheon is the unmentioned part of the wedding.  But I thought even the luncheon was a blast.  Can you tell I had fun on my wedding day??

I spent hours making the scrapbook of "our dating" while Spencer
 did homework all summer.  The pictures and quote "Grow old with
me the best is yet to be" were a Pinterest find.  The cute picture was  
painted by my boss at the "Campus Store."  On the right you can see our sign in table with my favorite wedding picture.  My mom wouldn't let me get a big version of it because, "people would think  I got married at the fair."  It wasn't worth arguing.  

We ordered flowers in bulk from Sam's Club (it saves tons of money!) and my neighbor, Susan Andersen, arranged all the flower centerpieces for me.  They turned out gorgeous!  As a side note, look how beautiful the field is behind the pictures.

I had this great vision of buying wooden letters that said "Cazier" for decor.  First I tried custom ordering them, to save money, but then they were way too thin and wouldn't stand up.  So, I bought some at Hobby Lobby.  They told me they'd order me the letter "Z", so come back in 2 weeks.  When I came back, they told me the company didn't make the letter "Z".  Are you kidding me?!?!?  Ultimately I bought a metal letter Z and spray painted it.  It didn't REALLY match, but you reach a point where you just don't care.
The paper lanterns on chairs....another Pinterest steal.
I really wanted a frozen yogurt bar, but apparently you can't rent a yogurt machine.  We ended up with an ice cream bar, but I still think it looks pretty cute.  (This was one thing I didn't see until I saw the pictures.)

I have a lot of quilts from my Grandma's.  We have this big ugly concrete storage area under our deck, so we hung quilts and got creative to cover it all up.  Bonus: two of my neighbors do interior design, they designed all of this.  I just bought the stuff.   

We found a lady that made our cake for about 1/6 the price of anywhere else.  Plus it turned out pretty dang cute.  The lanterns were one of those things that I had the vision of, but absolutely no idea how we were going to hang them.  That's what dads and fiancés are for.    

It was the line that would never end.  But I really didn't mind.  It's way better than nobody showing up.

I have always thought that cutting the cake is only great if you smash it in each others' faces.  But, I told Spencer not to smash it in my face.  He smashed it anyway, just like I've always secretly wanted it.  

I've wanted to do the Father-daughter dance ever since I watched the movie "What A Girl Wants."  And our first dance was a given.  Spencer even chose the song for us, "Could Not Ask For More."

These two are proof that catching the garter and bouquet really does work.  They just barely got engaged....to each other!  (And I'm really excited)

Last but not least, our car., decorated so nicely by our friends.  Unfortunately you can't really see the more inappropriate parts added by Greg and Pete.

Conclusion:  Having a reception is a blast, so long as you don't get caught up in the details.  My advice?  Get a goodnights sleep the night before (I would argue it's a very appropriate time to take some Tylenol PM) and wear good shoes.  It also helps to have the love of your life with you the whole time.  :)

The Wedding

If someone asked me to describe our wedding day in a word, it would be perfect.  I worried before the wedding that I would be too caught up in minor details, and being a control freak.  Everyone kept telling me things would go wrong, and I'd have to roll with it.  But honestly, the only complaint I have about my wedding day was that it ended too soon, and that I don't have a photographic memory to remember every second of the day. 

Here is a small sample of our pictures from the wedding (reception will come later).  I apologize, they're repeats from Facebook, but I'm just picking my favorites. 

Enjoy :)

The temple is seriously the most beautiful place, can you imagine how much it would cost to rent out a place like this?  Not to mention the fact we get to be together forever :)

The ever popular "walking out of the temple picture."  First picture of us as Mr. and Mrs. Cazier

That awkward moment where you're walking in total bliss and everyone else is wishing they could leave before the pictures start.

The Cazier family: Carrie and Ben (Spencer's only sister), Garrett and Erin, Jeff and Kaye (Spen's parents), and Russ and Rachel.  It's so fun to finally have older sisters! (and brothers)

The Hougaard Family: Kierstin, Jared, Brock, Todd and Shannon, and Trevor.  Yeah, we've got a lot of grey going on here.  Did I mention they all adore Spencer?  I highly recommend marrying someone your family likes.

I have been so blessed to have amazing friends throughout my life.  Words can't express how much I love all these ladies! (Kierstin, Tanille, Marisa, Andrea, Caitlin, Claire, Mandi, Hope, Lauren, and Kelbie)

My mom and little sister.  Could not have pulled anything off without my mom.

Spen and his friends: Ian, Pete, Nick, Matt, and Greg

Daddy daughter

When I graduated high school, my mom gave me a picture frame.  In that picture frame, there was one of those generic pictures of random people in this pose.  I never took that picture out, because I thought it was so cute, and I wanted to make sure I got one just like it someday.  It turned out pretty great, I think.

Will you marry me?

Before I make this post, I should probably state a disclaimer: I didn't have a chance to blog before we got married, but I am awful at writing in my journal, so this is my way of documenting our dating/engagement/wedding.  So bear with me for a few more posts while I go back in time.  I promise I'll get to the present eventually.  (And they probably won't be so long winded)

Ok, so this is the story of our engagement.  Spencer took my dad out to breakfast the Saturday before my birthday to ask for his permission.  Of course, my dad said yes, but he requested Spencer wait until my parents returned home from a scout camp that upcoming week.  Unfortunately, they wouldn't return home until the day AFTER my birthday.  Poor Spencer, planned a great day for my birthday filled with tandem bike rides, a picnic lunch, and dinner at Maddox, but I was just sure we'd get engaged that day.  Right before I headed home for the night, he gave me my birthday present, which he told me I couldn't open until I got home.  I drove home (crying, because I had been so sure he was going to propose) to my sister, who made me open the present.  It was a huge collage, but one picture was missing.  My sister tried to convince me there was some secret message in this, but I thought he'd just forgotten to put a picture in.

The missing picture 

Spencer even had a hidden photographer

The next day, I got off work and went over to Spencer's.  We had plans to go out to dinner with my friends for my birthday that night, so I had zero expectations of a proposal.  The moment I walked in the door, he told me we needed to go meet his old mission companion to give him some things.  I thought it was odd, but didn't push the matter.  When we pulled up to the Logan tabernacle, he pretended to answer his phone and tell the companion where he was parked.  He asked me to get out and start unloading the trunk, but when I opened the trunk there was a bouquet of flowers, a picture of him, and a white flag that said, "I surrender."  (An inside joke, because I once told him all he needed to do was wave his surrender flag and we could get married.) My mind has never moved so slowly, I sat there trying to process what this could mean. As it all started to make sense, Spencer came around and asked if I wanted to go ring shopping.  That evening we went ring shopping.  The next morning, we had a temple date and time arranged.  And on Monday, we ordered the ring to be custom made in Salt Lake.  They said this would take a week or two, but it'd be done in no time.  Unfortunately, the ring people couldn't get it quite right.  The first time Spencer went to pick it up, (just days before our engagement pictures) it looked all wrong. 

I wore a filler ring for a couple weeks while the people tried to get it right.  Just 8 days before our wedding, he told me we had a date.  We went up Logan Canyon with Spencer's old roommate, Riley, and his wife to go on a horseback ride in the mountains.  When we got to our destination, Riley pretended to have dropped his camera, and he and his wife backtracked.  Spencer got off his horse to take a break, so I followed suit.  Then he got down on his knee and (finally) proposed for real.  It was very cute, and well planned out. 

When we got off the mountain, we went to dinner at Village Inn, where we went on our first "date".  I was so excited, I wanted to tell everyone!  But I compensated for putting a picture of my ring on Facebook right then and there.

Our Story

For my first post, I thought I'd give a little synopsis of "us."  Spencer and I met in the fall of 2010.  I was a freshman, and he was fresh off his two year LDS mission to Taiwan.  We lived in the same apartment complex, where he and his roommates had become friends with my roommates.  Our friend groups hung out a ton during fall semester, and we all became great friends.  We didn't hang out much during spring semester with the exception of spring break, where Spencer and his friends met up with my roommate and me for a day at Disneyland and a day at Laguna Beach.  At this point we both had some mutual feelings, but we never pursued it.  Spencer had been accepted to BYU for the fall, and I did not want a boyfriend.  That summer, Spencer moved to Missouri for summer sales and I stayed in Logan to work and do summer school.  At this point, fate stepped in...

The whole group at Laguna Beach (Spring Break 2011)

 Less than a month before school started, Spencer found out BYU wouldn't accept a lot of his USU credits, tacking on an entire semester of repeat courses.  With just a few weeks to go, Spencer re-enrolled at USU, registered for classes, and bought a contract with two of his roommates from the previous year.  I caught wind that Spencer was back at USU, but didn't think much of it.  In September, my roommates and I went to a dance party at their house and I remember thinking, "I bet he finds a girl to marry up here."  But, I never thought it would be me.  We didn't see much of Spencer or his friends until October, when they invited us over for a game night.  I was in a flirty mood, and Spencer reciprocated.  The next day he met up with me at the football game, afterwards we watched a scary movie together with my roommates.  This inspired a full month of scary movies with both our sets of roommates.  The more movies we watched, the closer we'd sit, until one night, right before Halloween, he finally put his arm around me.  The next night, we watched a movie that absolutely terrified me, which worked to his advantage, I cuddled right up to him, and the ice was broken, permanently.

Spencer and I with my roommates Hope and Marisa (and his roommate Pete in the background)

From that point on, we hung out nearly everyday.  We held hands, cuddled, hung out as groups of friends, and even did a few activities on our own.  On November 14, we went out for ice cream then went on a drive up the canyon, where he kissed me for the first time.  Things continued to progress, and we went on more "just us" dates until Christmas break, when I spent a week in California and he spent the following week in Yellowstone.  We stayed in touch via text, and Spencer came up to Logan for a couple days around New Years.

Date night right before Christmas Break

 When school started in January, we picked up right where we left off, and continued seeing each other pretty much everyday.  We quickly decided that neither of us was interested in dating others, and became exclusive.  We continued dating until June 8, (the day AFTER my birthday) when he (finally) took me ring shopping.  Spencer and I had a short, 8-week engagement, and got sealed for eternity in the Logan temple on August 2, 2012 (almost 22 months to the day since we'd met).  I couldn't be happier to be married to my best friend, and I'm excited for the many adventures that lie ahead!